An older cousin of the 17 year old male who took his life a
few weeks back, has also taken his life. 20 Year old Ryan McCarthy had
connections to Glenbrook
North High
School and to St. Norbert's Catholic
Parish. Several Churches in Northbrook
have mobilized to provide support to community adolescents and others affected
by these tragedies.
Many questions remain, if social network posts are any indication parents are on edge and I'm sure all of us hope there will be no more suicides. Time will tell. I for one will be interested in how the press handles this and if Glenbrook North weighs in or chooses to stay back. And my sincere condolence's goes out to all the family and friends who are victims of these needless actions. There really are no words to blunt blows like these.
Many questions remain, if social network posts are any indication parents are on edge and I'm sure all of us hope there will be no more suicides. Time will tell. I for one will be interested in how the press handles this and if Glenbrook North weighs in or chooses to stay back. And my sincere condolence's goes out to all the family and friends who are victims of these needless actions. There really are no words to blunt blows like these.
I thought I'd post something from the American Association of Suicidology (AAS, 2006) on the signs that professionals should be on the lookout for when assessing suicide potential in individuals (http://counselingoutfitters.com/vistas/ACAPCD/ACAPCD-03.pdf).
IS PATH WARM
Suicide Ideation:
Does the client report active suicidal ideation or has she/he written about
her/his suicide or death? Does the client report the desire
to kill him/herself?
Substance Abuse: Does the
client excessively use alcohol or
other drugs, or has she/he
begun using alcohol or other drugs?
Purposelessness: Does the
client voice a lack or loss of purpose in life? Does he/she see
little or no sense or reason for continued living?
Anger: Does the client
express feelings of rage or uncontrolled anger? Does she/he seek
revenge against others whom he/she perceives have wronged
her/him or are at fault for the current concerns or problems?
Trapped: Does the client
feel trapped? Does she/he believe there is no way out of her/his
current situation? Does the client believe death is
preferable to a pained life? Does the client believe that no other
choices exist except living the pained life or death?
Hopelessness: Does the
client have a negative sense of self,
others, and the future?
Does the future appear hopeless
with little chance for
positive change?
Withdrawing: Does the
client indicate a desire to withdraw from significant others,
family, friends, and society? Have they already begun
withdrawing? Are they avoiding dealing with large and important issues?
Anxiety: Does the client
feel anxious, agitated, or unable to
sleep? Does the client
report an inability to relax? Just as
important, does the
client report sleeping all the time? Either can suggest
increased risk of suicide or self-harm.
Recklessness: Does the
client act recklessly or engage in risky activities, seemingly
without thinking or considering
potential consequences? Impulsiveness?
Mood Change: Does the
client report experiencing dramatic
mood
shifts or states?
Listening Is The Key
As a parent, friend or significant other take the time to listen to those you know. Being supportive isn't about having answers, it is listening to what others are really saying. Listening is the key to spotting the above signs and symptoms. Successfully doing so may be all that is necessary. How well do you listen?
For more information:
http://northernillinoissuicideassessment.blogspot.com/2009/04/suicide-assessment-on-north-shore-why.html
For more information:
http://northernillinoissuicideassessment.blogspot.com/2009/04/suicide-assessment-on-north-shore-why.html
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